"I want to send flowers. I have no idea what I'm doing." How To Send Flowers Like A Boss

Last time I talked about why you should send flowers. A lot of women have NEVER received flowers as a gift. That means that you have a huge opportunity to make an unforgettable impression and drastically escalate your romantic relationship.

To give you an example of how memorable flowers are, I recently helped a pair of daughters pick out flowers for their fathers funeral. We decided on red roses as our theme. One of these beautiful women said to me: "When I turned eighteen my dad bought me a dozen red roses. That was the only time a man ever bought flowers for me." This woman was in her 60's. How much of an impact did these flowers have on her? How many times in her life do you think she remembers those flowers? 

When you consider the fact that you're influencing someone's memories in a positive way for A LIFETIME, the cost starts to seem pretty trivial. How much is it worth to make a woman you love think you're awesome forever?

I speak from experience. I sent flowers to the woman who is now my wife at a pivotal time early on in our relationship. If you were to ask her, she would tell you the fact that I sent flowers set me far apart from her other suitors at the time. No man had ever bought her flowers before. She is way out of my league, guys. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

If you're not on board at this point, if your like "Uhhhh! Flowers DIE!" Please, just stop reading. I can't help you. Go buy your wife a bowling ball with your name on it and enjoy your alimony payments.

If you're ready to be that guy, the guy who's not like all the others, The guy who's confident and classy. The guy who understands her, read on. I have a foolproof system to help you send the perfect flowers the first time and every time.

Step One: Plan it out.

You're going to want to arrange delivery for a day when you know where she's going to be for a while. If you know she's going to be at work or at home all day, that's great. Florists usually can't guarantee a specific delivery time on holidays, so be prepared to be flexible.

Pro Tip: Find out her favorite colors. You can do this by just asking, or by noticing what colors she uses in her decorating. You can get clues from her favorite artwork, her favorite outfit or accessory, or the color of the products she buys. If her dish soap, fabric softener, and mouthwash are all purple, that's a good sign she likes purple. Favorite colors are easier than favorite flowers. Her favorite flower is probably some strange thing she saw on Pintrest that may or may not be available. If you tell a florist her favorite color, you will get something way cooler than you imagined.

This is going to sound obvious, but you should know her first and last name, her phone number, and the address of the place where she's going to be. Have this information ready.

Step Two: Find a florist

You want to call a real, local florist that is in the town where she lives. Use Yelp or Google to search for a florist. They should be able to verify that they are a real florist with a local address when you call them.

I'm going to say it. If you use one of the big online flower services, you're an idiot. National websites are not florists. They're referral services with a call center on the other side of the planet that charge you to talk to them on the phone, then they try to farm out your order to whatever local florist will fill it for less money than you paid. Guess what I do when these guys call me? I hang up. I'm not doing business with these jokers and you shouldn't either. 

Step Three: Know what you want to say.

The flower shop you call is going to ask you what message you'd like to send along with your flowers. It's best to keep it simple. If it's a holiday, something like "Happy Valentine's Day!" is perfect. Otherwise, the best messages are "Just Because" or "Thinking of You". Don't overthink it. The flowers will do the talking. 

Pro Tip: Don't send flowers anonymously.  If you're sending flowers to someone you're trying to woo, don't send them without signing your name. I hate to tell you this, but she's not going to think it's you. She's going to think "OMG, George Clooney/Justin Beiber/Kendrick Lamar sent me flowers!" You can't compete with her fantasy guy so don't try. You're good enough because you're the guy who's cool enough to send flowers. Give yourself the credit.

Step Four: Figure out what you want to send. 

You did step one, right? Tell the designer that takes your order what colors the object of your desire likes and anything about her personality that seems relevant. Trust the professionals, they do this every day. Everybody on my team has a minimum of thirty years experience. Half of them were born into this industry and have lived it their whole lives. How would you trust a carpenter with that much experience? You would defer to him for almost every decision. Such is the experience of your local florist.

Pro Tip: Most local florists can also deliver candy, cute stuffed animals, and colorful balloons to make your gift even more special. At Schneider's Florist, we partner with Marie's Candy in West Liberty, Ohio to provide our customers with the freshest, top quality, gourmet chocolates available. We also stock adorable stuffed animals that are far superior to the carnival quality plush you'll find at the local big box travesty. Be sure to ask about these upgrades when you call your local florist.

Step Five: Get your credit card out. 

Yup, flowers cost money. There's a vast global infrastructure set up to ship flowers across the planet under refrigeration the whole time, you have to pay for them. So how do you budget for flowers?

Be ready to spend the same amount of money on flowers that you would spend on a fancy meal for the two of you. Whether that's the taco truck around the corner or dinner at The French Laundry, that's what you want to spend. I don't want to talk specific prices, because they will vary widely depending on where you live. Obviously $100 will buy you a lot more flowers in Huntington, West Virginia, than it would buy in Manhattan.  Consider the cost of living in your area when you order.

If you feel like sending flowers isn't for you after reading this guide, that's ok. It's not for everyone. This post is for the guys in my audience that are ready to invest. The guys that are ready to double down and show the women in their lives that they're damn serious about creating a lifetime romance. Wherever you are, this guide is for you.

I will find you a local florist. Contact me at aaronardle@gmail.com or on Twitter @Aaron_Ardle and I will refer you to a local florist in your area for free. Tell me your thoughts about flowers, relationships, whatever. I read every single email. 

See you next week.

Why Send Flowers?

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"Rules to live by. Take a lady flowers. Or a flower even, if it's a great one." Dita Von Teese @ditavonteese

Guys, I know a lot of you are nervous about ordering flowers.  Maybe you're nervous about entering the unfamiliar territory of a flower shop.  Maybe you're worried about the cost. Maybe you're worried you won't choose the "right thing". It may be the case that you simply don't see the value in sending fresh flowers. Wouldn't something a little more practical be a better idea? Maybe, but let me tell why you should send flowers.

Because women like to get flowers. 

That's it guys! It's not a big secret, it's not complicated. Women like to receive flowers as a gift. They don't care that flowers aren't "useful". They don't care that the flowers won't last forever. The fact that flowers exist for their own sake and will eventually wilt actually makes it an even more meaningful gift. 

Think about it. Because they only last a short time, flowers are a pure luxury item, even beyond something like jewelry. When you give flowers, there's no expectation that you are going to personally experience the value of that gift. Flowers are for her and only her. Flowers give a tremendous positive emotional jolt that she will remember for a very long time. 

Take a minute to look at this article about flowers. "Men (who send flowers)...come across as more emotionally intelligent; they give the impression they can effectively express their feelings and take time to understand the feelings of others." That's a powerful message to send to your special someone.  

Look at what this guy says about his failed relationship. This woman was generous enough to give him a numbered list of the things he did wrong. Look at what she said for number three:

"I didn't pay enough attention, didn't give her flowers, didn't care enough about her." 

Do you see how sending flowers would have instantly solved all three of those problems? 

If he had sent flowers, do you think she would have felt like he was paying attention? If he had sent flowers, do you think she would have felt cared for? Flowers communicate all of those things by themselves.

I don't want to sound cynical, but I want to express this in a way that men will understand:

Flowers are an easy win. They're a no-brainer. You don't have to perform some amazing feat. You can express feelings you don't have the words for, just by sending flowers. 

I talk to a lot of women in the flower shop every day. The number of women that I talk to that wish their husbands would send them flowers is absolutely staggering. The number of women I talk to every single day that have NEVER received flowers blows my mind. 

Guys, do you realize that if you send a woman flowers it could very likely be the first time she's EVER gotten flowers? Do you realize how much of an impact your gift of flowers could have on her? 

You don't know. I know you don't know. That's why I'm telling you. 

Flowers don't pay in physical value. They pay, long term, with interest, in emotional value in a way that no other gift can, no matter how extravagant.

Next time I'm going to share a fool proof system designed to help guys who want to order flowers, but have no idea what they're doing. I hope you join me.

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Unique Valentine's Day Flowers in Springfield, Ohio

Valentine's Day is a great time to send flowers to all your loved ones. You can order flowers online from our website from the comfort of your home.  We can deliver flowers anywhere in Clark County, including Enon, South Charleston, South Vienna, New Carlisle, Yellow Springs, and of course Springfield where our flower shop is located. Valentine's Day is on a Sunday. Don't forget to order flowers early this year. We know roses are very popular, but what if you want to send flowers that have a unique twist? Today I want to show you some fun fresh flower arrangements from our Valentine's Day page.

Sassy, available for delivery in Springfield, Ohio

This beautiful flower bouquet is called Sassy. Gerbera daisies and roses accented with heather make a youthful and romantic combination. This flower arrangement is a great choice if you're thinking about sending flowers to your best friend. Gerbera daisies make everyone smile with their great color and fun shape. This is a great selection to send to your best friend, a coworker, your sister, or mom.

Make Up in Springfield, Ohio

I'm not suggesting anybody is mad at you, but if you dropped the ball last Valentine's Day maybe it's time to Make Up. This trendy flower arrangement includes green hydrangea, bells of Ireland, roses, and orange gerbera daisies. Make a grand impression for all to see by sending these beautiful flowers to the office for Valentine's Day.

Make Out, available for delivery in Springfield, Ohio

If you manage to make up, you may be lucky enough to Make Out. Classic Valentine's Day flowers in a unique design. Red roses and spray roses nestled in white hydrangea that look like puffy clouds. Inspire romance with this delightful arrangement of fresh flowers. 

I hope you enjoyed looking at these Valentine's Day flowers with me. Remember you can order flowers for delivery, by calling 937-323-4634. you can visit us online, or shop in store at our historic destination location just north of downtown Springfield. Keep watching, I'll continue with even more Valentine's Day flowers next week. Thanks for reading.

Valentine's Day Flower Specials in Springfield, Ohio

We're starting to build some Valentine's Day momentum at Schneider's Florist. I hope you take my advice to heart and order flowers early in the week. Whether you're ordering flowers for your mom, your best friend, a new flirtation, or a life long partner, we have the perfect expression for you. In this post I'm showing you the premium version of each arrangement. Be sure to request the premium version when placing your order for the fullest, most abundant look possible. 

Wrapped in Passion Bouquet in Springfield, Ohio

Up first is our flagship design for Valentine's Day. The Wrapped in Passion Bouquet is the ultimate in luxury. Long stem red roses and Stargazer lilies accented with fragrant wax flower and premium greenery in this exquisite, hand blown, ruby red vase with a glass ribbon wrap. I talk about red roses and Stargazer lilies all the time because the it makes for such an impressive combination and The Wrapped in Passion Bouquet is no exception.

The Pair of Hearts Bouquet in Springfield, Ohio

Up next the The Pair of Hearts Bouquet. I love the saturated, scarlet glazed vase with the shimmering metallic Pair of Hearts band that can be worn as a bracelet. This heartfelt design includes red roses and delicate white alstromeria for an oh-so-lovely presentation. Bet on romance with The Pair of Hearts Bouquet.

The Best Friends Forever Bouquet in Springfield, Ohio

Celebrate Valentine's Day in style with The Best Friends Forever Bouquet. Red and white roses, hand delivered in a modern cube vase with a wrap around heart graphic. This thoughtful design is sure to brighten anyone's Valentine's Day! Why not order one for everybody in the office?

The Lovely Hearts Bouquet in Springfield, Ohio

I really like the way The Lovely Hearts Bouquet stretches the traditional Valentine's Day color palette with warm touches of peach. Spray roses, alstromeria, miniature carnations, and decorative heather fill the hand painted, Lovely Hearts mug. This is a gift that can be enjoyed for years to come.

 Remember that we can bundle your Valentine's Day flowers with an adorable, cuddly teddy bear and mouth watering, gourmet chocolate from Marie's Candy for a complete Valentine's Day package.

The air is crackling with electric romance! Can you feel it? Are you getting excited? I know I am!

Let's make 2016 The Year of No Compromise. Let's go big this Valentine's Day. Let's step outside of our comfort zones and communicate in a way that leaves no question about our intentions. Let's bet on ourselves and take a chance on True Love. Now is the time. When you're ready I'll be here.

Valentine's Day Planning Guide for Springfield, Ohio from Schneider'sFlorist

Perfectly Pink, Valentine's day flowers in Springfield, Ohio

This year Valentine's Day falls on a Sunday, making for the perfect opportunity to turn the holiday into a week long extravaganza. How do you do that? If you're like me, you're probably planning your festivities for Friday or Saturday, but when is the best time to send flowers?

My suggestion for this year is to send flowers at the beginning of the week. Why send Valentine's Day flowers early? There are three good reasons. 

First, by ordering early you get the best selection. Don't miss out on sending the perfect flowers by waiting too long. Second, if you're sending flowers to your special someone at work think about how exciting it would be to enjoy the flowers, and think about you, for the entire week. Third, and this is crucial, think about the peace of mind you'll have knowing you took the time to send flowers early.

A Dozen Premium Red Roses, Valentine's Day flowers, Springfield, Ohio

I've covered why I think it's best to order early for Valentine's Day this year, but what should you send? Pictured above is a dozen red roses, It's perfectly nice and nobody would complain about getting a dozen roses. Now look at the image below.

Eternal Gaze, Valentine's Day flowers in Springfield, Ohio

Which would you rather get? Which one would make a bigger splash at the office? How would it make your true love feel to get the second arrangement? Step your Valentine's Day game up a notch this year. Check out more luxury designs here.

At Schneider's Florist, we have more than just flowers for Valentine's Day. We can also send colorful balloons, adorable stuffed animals, and delicious gourmet chocolate from Marie's Candy. Call 937-323-4634 and ask about our Valentine's Day Bundles to send the total package.

Thanks for reading. I hope I've given you some good advice for how to make Valentine's Day the best ever this year. If you're hungry for more, visit us online to see all of the beautiful designs we can create for you. Until next time.

Extravagant Valentine's Day Flowers from Schneider's Florist

Won't you be mine? These swans found love on our chalkboard wall for Valentine's Day.

Valentine's Day is on the horizon. I thought it would be fun to show some of our most extravagant luxury arrangements to kick off the season. These lavish flowers are guaranteed to spur winter romance.

Inspired

Inspired is the ultimate for romance. Red roses, white hydrangea, and Stargazer lilies. A spectacular presentation. Make your true love swoon with this arrangement for Valentine's Day

Pink and White Elegance

Pink and White Elegance uses similar flowers to achieve a completely different look. Pink roses and green hydrangea accented with fragrant stock and alstromeria. The greenery gives the illusion of movement and is fun to touch. Stimulate all of your lover's senses with this beautiful bouquet.

Breathtaking Beauty

First impressions are everything. Nothing has more impact than a large vase full of the best red roses. Breathtaking Beauty goes above and beyond the everyday dozen. Thirty six red roses set against a background of premium greens in a flared vase. Send Breathtaking Beauty to the office so she can revel in the hushed awe of her coworkers when this monumental arrangement is placed before her. 

We've only just scratched the surface of Valentine's Day designs and ideas. Keep watching for more stunning creations all month long!

Christmas Centerpieces from Schneider's Florist

I usually post every Tuesday but I'm writing a bonus post this week. Christmas is right around the corner. Now is the time to pick out a nice centerpiece for your holiday table. We're going to look at some great ideas today.

Candy Cane Symphony

Candy Cane Symphony is a beautiful, lush centerpiece in traditional holiday colors. Bright flowers, berries, and evergreens sing the sweet song of the season.

Snowfall in Springfield, Ohio

Snowfall completes the look of your warm, rustic table. Fragrant cypress, noble fir, and white pine mixed with natural winter accents make a tastefully trendy statement.

Crowning Elegance

I shared this arrangement earlier this week but I'm showing it to you again because I love it so much. Glowing Elegance is a stunner. I think the pink and white flowers with copper and gold mixed in is really refreshing and unique. 

Silver and Joy Centerpiece in Springfield, Ohio

We've looked at the Silver and Joy Centerpiece already, but I wanted to show it to you one more time. The delightful snowflake bowl will find a place in your Christmas decor for years to come. Wow your guests with this fabulous arrangement.

Are you feeling excited? I know I am! You can choose from any of these awesome centerpieces, or browse our website for more ideas. Remember you can always call or visit us to help you design the perfect custom creation for your celebration. 

I have one more surprise for you to unwrap before Christmas. See you next week!

P.S. Don't forget we have a great selection of Marie's Candy gift wrapped and ready to go. Stop in or call and add it to your delivery today.